Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain
Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain
"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive
Dale Carnegie
To not criticize , condemn or complain are three important techniques that Dale Carnegie shows us to follow. These techniques will allow us to become someone better than what we already are. Or they can also teach one of us a lesson or two about the benefits and positive outcomes that can come about following through these techniques. Like for example, we must all learn to behave and not criticize at any moment. It is not polite or correct to do so. Therefore I encourage myself and others to keep our thoughts within ourselves . We must also not condemn or complain for how we feel about others. This will only bring attention and make the situation more difficult for you by causing drama in front of a crowd. So without further or do I suggest everyone to follow through Dale Carnegie's techniques if they wish to make a better change of themselves .
I will try these three techniques within the following days . First by keeping my opinions and thoughts to myself. Another is by not complaining or condemning in front of anyone for something that is not worth to complain. By then hopefully people and myself will see the positive change that has affected me after following these techniques. I know they will only make me a better person and perhaps another that followed through them .
Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"
Being honest to people about the things you appreciate most in life can really benefit you because people will take into consideration what you like and are interested in. Sometimes maybe even a person can give you work to do because they know how much you'll appreciate it and not take it for granted. For example, if a teacher or a staff member see your expression of gratitude they'll most likely talk more about you and grow trust with you. This will mean more people will get to know on the ways on how you, which will shortly build you a great reputation. Therefore, always keep in mind to carry on a great expression it says a lot. Also be honest because anyone whose a liar will get no where in life. All they will have is a problem after another. Besides telling the truth is what people like most and i can almost guarantee that they'll always appreciate your modest honesty. So be honest and show people you sincere appreciation that's the big secret that will surely get you going on the right path.
This technique i know i will forever use because being sincere builds connections, communication and trust. It allows a person to be confident and trust you. This can benefit you both in two ways; in your work and reputation. So to not only make myself look good but to also be good i will be honest and show 100% sincere appreciation and honesty in everything i do.
Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.
"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely way."
I will try these three techniques within the following days . First by keeping my opinions and thoughts to myself. Another is by not complaining or condemning in front of anyone for something that is not worth to complain. By then hopefully people and myself will see the positive change that has affected me after following these techniques. I know they will only make me a better person and perhaps another that followed through them .
Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"
Being honest to people about the things you appreciate most in life can really benefit you because people will take into consideration what you like and are interested in. Sometimes maybe even a person can give you work to do because they know how much you'll appreciate it and not take it for granted. For example, if a teacher or a staff member see your expression of gratitude they'll most likely talk more about you and grow trust with you. This will mean more people will get to know on the ways on how you, which will shortly build you a great reputation. Therefore, always keep in mind to carry on a great expression it says a lot. Also be honest because anyone whose a liar will get no where in life. All they will have is a problem after another. Besides telling the truth is what people like most and i can almost guarantee that they'll always appreciate your modest honesty. So be honest and show people you sincere appreciation that's the big secret that will surely get you going on the right path.
This technique i know i will forever use because being sincere builds connections, communication and trust. It allows a person to be confident and trust you. This can benefit you both in two ways; in your work and reputation. So to not only make myself look good but to also be good i will be honest and show 100% sincere appreciation and honesty in everything i do.
Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.
"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely way."
Reflection:
Everyone has an eager want. It's just the matter of how eager we are to achieve it. For example, the president's who are up for the elections have to prove to the people how eager they are for their position. An what they will do to achieve it. Another example, will be having something written down on your agenda and you having to complete it. However imagine yourself completing the task with someone watching you. Looking to see how eager you are to complete it or achieve it.Also encourage people to achieve their goals. Influence them to do something with themselves. Self motivate them and yourself. Do what you can to help other and yourself achieve the highway to success.
This technique i will use by helping other's achieve their goals. As well as by helping myself with my achievements. Try to show the people how much you care about accomplishing something you most desire and want. Don't let any body drag you down from this achievement because its your dream not there's. So live it!
Final Reflection:
Overall learning from the three Fundamental Techniques i believe they have helped me in my daily life. They have teached me the ways on how improve on myself and how to pass it on to others. They have teached how to learn to appreciate, not judge or condemn, as well as to self motivate someone and myself to achieve what they most eagerly want. Therefore, im glad to say that i recommend to a person to follow by Dale Carnegie's three fundamental techniques. It'll surely change their life, behavior, and personality as well as overall life experience. It empowered me emensly i hope it'll empower you. So make a change with yourself(you are starting the new year) it's never to late to accomplish a great attitude or desire. You'll not only be helping yourself but perhaps others as well.
This technique i will use by helping other's achieve their goals. As well as by helping myself with my achievements. Try to show the people how much you care about accomplishing something you most desire and want. Don't let any body drag you down from this achievement because its your dream not there's. So live it!
Final Reflection:
Overall learning from the three Fundamental Techniques i believe they have helped me in my daily life. They have teached me the ways on how improve on myself and how to pass it on to others. They have teached how to learn to appreciate, not judge or condemn, as well as to self motivate someone and myself to achieve what they most eagerly want. Therefore, im glad to say that i recommend to a person to follow by Dale Carnegie's three fundamental techniques. It'll surely change their life, behavior, and personality as well as overall life experience. It empowered me emensly i hope it'll empower you. So make a change with yourself(you are starting the new year) it's never to late to accomplish a great attitude or desire. You'll not only be helping yourself but perhaps others as well.
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